1.
We will not have failure - only success and new learning.
Queen Victoria
We will not accept defeat - only triumph and fresh understanding.
2.
Were women to "unsex" themselves by claiming equality with men, they would become the most hateful, heathen, and disgusting of beings and would surely perish without male protection.
Queen Victoria
If women were to forsake their femininity and seek parity with men, they would be reviled as the most loathsome, godless, and abhorrent of creatures and would certainly perish without male guardianship.
3.
The important thing is not what they think of me, but what I think of them.
Queen Victoria
The critical matter is not what others' opinions of me are, but my own opinion of them.
4.
Give my people plenty of beer, good beer, and cheap beer, and you will have no revolution among them.
Queen Victoria
Provide my people with an abundance of ale, quality ale, and affordable ale, and there will be no uprising among them.
5.
Nothing will turn a man's home into a castle more quickly and effectively than a dachshund.
Queen Victoria
No pet will transform a dwelling into a fortress more expeditiously and thoroughly than a dachshund.
6.
Since it has pleased Providence to place me in this station, I shall do my utmost to fulfil my duty towards my country; I am very young and perhaps in many, though not in all things, inexperienced, but I am sure that very few have more real good will and more real desire to do what is fit and right than I have.
Queen Victoria
7.
We are not interested in the possibilities of defeat. They do not exist.
Queen Victoria
We have no room for failure.
8.
Just close your eyes—and think of England.
Queen Victoria
Dream of Britain.
9.
Beware of artists, they mix with all classes of society and are therefore most dangerous.
Queen Victoria
Exercise caution with creators, for they associate with all walks of life and are thus the most hazardous.
10.
I love peace and quiet, I hate politics and turmoil. We women are not made for governing, and if we are good women, we must dislike these masculine occupations.
Queen Victoria
"I adore tranquility and serenity, I detest political turbulence. We females are not designed for ruling, and if we are virtuous women, we must abhor these masculine activities."
11.
Do not to let your feelings (very natural and usual ones) of momentary irritation and discomfort be seen by others don't (as you so often did and do) let every little feeling be read in your face and seen in your manner . . .
Queen Victoria
12.
Great events make me quiet and calm; it is only trifles that irritate my nerves.
Queen Victoria
Stupendous occurrences leave me hushed and serene; it is only insignificant matters that disturb my nerves.
13.
My dearest dearest dear Albert sat on a footstool by my side and his excessive love and affection gave me feelings of heavenly love and happiness I never could have hoped to have felt before! He clasped me in his arms and we kissed each other again and again! His beauty... his sweetness and gentleness - really how can I ever be thankful enough to have such a husband! to be called names of tenderness, I have never yet heard used to me before - was bliss beyond belief! Oh! This was the happiest day of my life! May God help me to do my duty as I ought and be worthy of such blessings.
Queen Victoria
14.
I positively think that ladies who are always enceinte quite disgusting; it is more like a rabbit or guinea-pig than anything else and really it is not very nice.
Queen Victoria
15.
The Queen is most anxious to enlist everyone in checking this mad, wicked folly of 'Women's Rights'. It is a subject which makes the Queen so furious that she cannot contain herself.
Queen Victoria
The Queen is fervently desirous to enlist all in thwarting this crazed, wicked notion of 'Women's Rights'. It is an issue which enrages the Queen so much that she cannot constrain her emotions.
16.
We poor creatures are born for man's pleasure and amusement, and destined to go through endless sufferings and trials.
Queen Victoria
17.
The greatest maxim of all is that children should be brought up as simply and in as domestic a way as possible, and that (not interfering with their lessons) they should be as much as possible with their parents, and learn to place the greatest confidence in them in all things.
Queen Victoria
18.
That Book, the Bible, accounts for the supremacy of England. England has become great & happy by the knowledge of the true God through Jesus Christ.
Queen Victoria
19.
She was such a beautiful and sweet creature... and so full of tricks.
Queen Victoria
20.
I don't dislike babies, though I think very young ones rather disgusting.
Queen Victoria
21.
We placed the wreaths upon the splendid granite sarcophagus, and at its feet, and felt that only the earthly robe we loved so much was there. The pure, tender, loving spirit which loved us so tenderly, is above us - loving us, praying for us, and free from all suffering and woe - yes, that is a comfort, and that first birthday in another world must have been a far brighter one than any in this poor world below!
Queen Victoria
22.
Bring me a cup of tea and the 'Times.'
Queen Victoria
23.
Being pregnant is an occupational hazard of being a wife.
Queen Victoria
24.
The poor fatherless baby of eight months is now the utterly broken-hearted and crushed widow of forty-two! My life as a happy one is ended! the world is gone for me! If I must live on (and I will do nothing to make me worse than I am), it is henceforth for our poor fatherless children - for my unhappy country, which has lost all in losing him - and in only doing what I know and feel he would wish.
Queen Victoria
25.
I think people really marry far too much; it is such a lottery after all, and for a poor woman a very doubtful happiness.
Queen Victoria
26.
[On alcohol:] Total abstinence is an impossibility and ... it will not do to insist on it as a general practice.
Queen Victoria
27.
Oh! was ever woman so blessed as I am.
Queen Victoria
28.
The Queen has done all she could on the dreadful subject of vivisection, and hopes that Mr. Gladstone will speak strongly against such a practice which is a disgrace to humanity.
Queen Victoria
29.
[On same-sex marriage:] No woman would do that.
Queen Victoria
30.
[To the bishop who suggested the widowed queen now consider herself 'as married to Christ':] That's what I call twaddle!
Queen Victoria
31.
You will find as the children grow up that as a rule children are a bitter disappointment - their greatest object being to do precisely what their parents do not wish and have anxiously tried to prevent.
Queen Victoria
32.
No civilization is complete which does not include the dumb and defenseless of God's creatures within the sphere of charity and mercy.
Queen Victoria
33.
When I think of a merry, happy, and free young girl - and look at the ailing aching state a young wife is generally doomed to - which you can't deny is the penalty of marriage.
Queen Victoria
34.
I feel sure that no girl would go to the altar if she knew all.
Queen Victoria
35.
Lord Aberdeen was quite touched when I told him I was so attached to the dear, dear Highlands and missed the fine hills so much. There is a great peculiarity about the Highlands and Highlanders; and they are such a chivalrous, fine, active people.
Queen Victoria
36.
Oh, that peace may come.
Queen Victoria
37.
The Queen is most anxious to enlist everyone who can speak or write to join in checking this mad, wicked folly of Woman's Rights with all its attendant horrors on which her poor, feeble sex is bent, forgetting every sense of womanly feeling and propriety.
Queen Victoria
38.
Oh! If those selfish men, who are the cause of all one's misery, only knew what their poor slaves go through! What suffering, what humiliation to the delicate feelings of a poor woman, above all a young one, especially with those nasty doctors.
Queen Victoria
39.
I am every day more convinced that we women, if we are to be good women, feminine and amiable and domestic, are not fitted to reign; at least it is they that drive themselves to the work which it entails.
Queen Victoria
40.
The Government should take a firm, bold line. This delay - this uncertainty, by which, abroad, we are losing our prestige and our position, while Russia is advancing and will be before Constantinople in no time! Then the Government will be fearfully blamed and the Queen so humiliated that she thinks she would abdicate at once.
Queen Victoria
41.
For a man to strike any women is most brutal, and I, as well as everyone else, think this far worse than any attempt to shoot, which, wicked as it is, is at least more comprehensible and more courageous.
Queen Victoria
42.
Affairs go on, and all will take some shape or other, but it keeps one in hot water all the time.
Queen Victoria
43.
Men never think, at least seldom think, what a hard task it is for us women to go through this very often. God's will be done, and if He decrees that we are to have a great number of children why we must try to bring them up as useful and exemplary members of society.
Queen Victoria
44.
Everybody grows but me.
Queen Victoria
45.
I would venture to warn against too great intimacy with artists as it is very seductive and a little dangerous.
Queen Victoria
46.
He speaks to Me as if I was a public meeting.
Queen Victoria
47.
There is, however, another subject on which the Queen feels most strongly, and that is this horrible, brutalizing, un-Christian-like vivisection…It must really not be permitted. It is a disgrace to a civilized country.
Queen Victoria
48.
Being married gives one one's position like nothing else can.
Queen Victoria
49.
Good Hock (Hochheimer) keeps off the Doc.
Queen Victoria
50.
A marriage is no amusement but a solemn act, and generally a sad one.
Queen Victoria