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Affirming words from moms and dads are like light switches. Speak a word of affirmation at the right moment in a child's life and it's like lighting up a whole roomful of possibilities.
Gary Smalley
Verbal encouragement from parents is akin to a ray of sunshine. Uttering words of admiration at the opportune moment in a youngster's life can open up an array of chances.
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Forgiveness involves pardon. Basically, that is like erasing their offenses toward us from a marking board. We immediately wash their offenses away like a wave washing away a message in the sand. Second, forgiveness involves caring for the offending person because most people who offend us have something in their own heart that needs healing. When we forgive others, they are released from our anger and we are healed by God.
Gary Smalley
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Not forgiving somebody is like drinking poison and hoping that the offender will get sick.
Gary Smalley
Holding a grudge is like ingesting poison and expecting the perpetrator to suffer.
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Life is relationships; the rest is just details.
Gary Smalley
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If a man truly wants to communicate with his wife, he must enter her world of emotions.
Gary Smalley
If a man truly wishes to connect with his wife, he must immerse himself in her realm of feelings.
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Children desperately need to know - and to hear in ways they understand and remember - that they're loved and valued by mom and dad.
Gary Smalley
Kids require to be cognizant - and to listen in ways that are comprehendible and memorable - that they're cherished and appreciated by mum and dad.
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Make it your goal to create a marriage that feels like the safest place on earth.
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Aim to build a union that is the most secure sanctuary on earth.
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A KEY TO BEGIN FORGIVING: Become soft and tender with the person. The first step is to become soft in your mind and spirit. Lower your voice and relax your facial expressions. This reflects honor and humility; and as Proverbs 15:1 suggests, "A gentle answer turns away anger."
Gary Smalley
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God specializes in impossible situations.
Gary Smalley
Divine intervention works in seemingly intractable predicaments.
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Love is a decision. Not always an easy one.
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Commitment is a choice. Not always a simple one.
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May God's richest blessings be upon you both today and throughout the year and may those blessings flow through you to touch the lives of everyone you meet.
Gary Smalley
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How do you show up for your relationships? Are you healthy or crippled? Are you prepared or needy? Are you ready to give or too tired to talk?
Gary Smalley