Jason Evert Quotes

Don't worry about finding your soul mate. Find yourself.

Without question, purity is beautiful. We're not talking about repression or prudishness, but about having a confident and serene sense of your dignity and worth.

What you win a guy with is what you keep him with. If you win him with your body than you'll have to try and keep him with your body. The problem is that every girl in the world has a body, so any girl in the world can lure him away. But who YOU are as a woman... No other woman in the world has that.

Purity is not about following a list of rules so that you'll avoid hell. It's about wanting heaven for the person you love.

You don't have to lower your morals to find love because, if you do, it's not love that you're finding.

The right relationship won't distract you from God. It will bring you closer to Him.

Love can wait to give. Lust can't wait to get.

Compatible comes from the Latin "compati", meaning "to suffer with". If you are not willing to suffer with someone until death do you part, then you are not compatible.

Don't let yourself be defined by the past. It's done. All you have is now and the future.

When a culture of ladies arises, a culture of gentlemen will follow.

Sex is not a tryout. If she fails to live up to your expectations in the bedroom, will you love her less? If so, you can be certain you never loved her to begin with.

Look at a crucifix. This is how I got my bride to heaven. How else do you think you will get yours there?

Women are not thousands of temptations to hell. They are thousands of reminders of the beauty of heaven.

Love is the greatest form of evangelization because it makes an invisible God visible.

The closer you get to God, the more you become yourself.

When you're dating, abstinence is a greater expression of love than making love, because you're doing what's best for your beloved, not just what feels good in the moment.

The more ready you are to give yourselves to God and to others, the more you will discover the authentic meaning of life.

If you decide to live a pure life, don't expect the world to understand your decision.

Carry the rosary with you everywhere, and it will carry you through anything.

Women, be radiant on your wedding day. But make sure your soul matches your dress.

If you do not speak to your teens about the meaning of human sexuality and love, the world will fill the void of your silence with a very contrary message.

After every temptation you will be either closer to God or further from Him.

If your heart says, "Maybe I shouldn't be doing this," listen to your heart, pray for strength, and get out of the situation immediately.

Hardly anyone today thinks about sex. We joke about it, dream about it, watch movies about it, listen to music about it, lust about it. But we don't ever really think about it.

Indecision is a decision.

Girls tend to get seduced through their ears. Guys tend to get seduced through their eyes.

If you own pornography of any kind, for the love of your future spouse, trash it immediately.

When a woman dresses modestly, I can take her seriously as a woman because she doesn’t look like she’s begging for attention. She knows that she’s worth discovering. Such humility is radiant. Unfortunately, many women are so preoccupied with turning men’s heads that they overlook their power to turn our hearts.

Jesus didn't suffer so we wouldn't have to suffer. He suffered so that we would know how to suffer.

When a woman veils her body in modest clothing, she is not hiding herself from men. On the contrary, she is revealing her dignity to them.

We know from the book of Genesis that God created men and women 'in His image and likeness.' We know from the first letter of John that 'God is Love.' Therefore, men and women are made in the image and likeness of Love. This isn't hard to see. Look at the design of the male and female bodies. They are made for each other. In fact, neither one makes complete sense apart from the other.

Authentic femininity is a combination of class, tenderness and virtue. When a woman possesses these traits, a man will naturally want to be more of a gentleman around her.

If you sincerely want to know if you're "going too far," don't ask yourself, "Is this bad?" Instead ask yourself, "Is this pure?"

If by how you dress, you are saying to guys, "Hey, look at my body," why would a guy want to get to know you?

Treat your date with the respect and purity you hope your future spouse will have. Keep in mind how you will expect a young man to treat your daughter one day. By listening to your conscience in this way, you'll have a good idea of where to draw the line.

When you feel far from God and far from everything that you wanted to be for Him, realize that you still have your whole future to give Him.

Friends with benefits are neither.