Tony Gaskins Quotes

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.

To be content does not mean that you don't desire more, it means you're thankful for what you have and patient for what's to come.

You can't save a relationship unless both people are equally invested. It takes a joint effort to make it work. One person trying will never be enough.

Evaluate the people in your life; then promote, demote, or terminate. You're the CEO of your life!

If you can't do anything about it then let it go. Don't be a prisoner to things you can't change.

There's about to be a shift in your life. Get ready for your blessings. You've been through enough and a breakthrough is on the way. Don't doubt it, just claim it!

Negative people need drama like oxygen. Stay positive, it'll take their breath away.

Man up and settle down. The sooner a man can gain control, identify his wife, and be faithful to her, the more successful, and happy you will be in life. Being with one woman in a faithful relationship will cause you to be the happiest version of yourself.

People hate you for 1 of 3 reasons. 1) They hate themselves 2) They want to be you 3) They see you as a threat When you love yourself you are incapable of hating anyone no matter what they've done.

Live your own truth and it won't matter how many lies they tell about you. The truth will prove itself.

Life is too precious to waste it with the wrong person. You're better off alone until the right one comes along.

Trust the process. Your time is coming. Just do the work and the results will handle themselves.

I just trust God. I don't worry about what tomorrow may bring because I know who's bringing it.

God makes originals not carbon copies. It's okay to be inspired by someone, but be bold enough to be yourself.

Even at your best, someone will have something negative to say. Pursue Greatness anyways!

Love doesn't hurt you. A person that doesn't know how to love hurts you. Don't get it twisted.

You attract what you are, not what you want. So if you want it then reflect it!

Embrace the struggle and let it make you stronger. It won't last forever.

A lot of time we build on lust that becomes very strong. Yet, when that lust wears off we think that love is running out, but really it's the lust that had an expiration date. We have to know what real love is and if we're really in-love.

You want a woman who shares your belief and your faith because that is usually your core. So, you want a woman whom you know can stand on that same foundation you both equally embrace and share. You also want a woman who is ambitious but also knows how to balance it with family.

True Love gives you Peace! It doesn't consume you with anxiety, that's lust!

When you truly love yourself, you don't have enemies. They may hate you but you're too big to hate them back.

Not everyone who started with you will finish with you. Be willing to go without them if you have to.

Ladies: If a man really wants to be with you, you WILL know it! If you have to question it, let it go!

People don't cheat by chance, they cheat by choice.

Winners win in life because they win the battle in their mind first!

Love is a learned behavior. If you don't learn how to love yourself someone will teach you how to hate yourself.

A woman [shouldn't] have to give a man her body to get his heart.

Separation before elevation. You have to let some people and things go so you can go to the next level.

A real relationship is like a river; the deeper it gets the less noise it makes.

Invest in yourself first. Expect nothing from no one and be willing to work for everything.

You'll get humbled right before you're blessed. It's just a test to make sure you can handle what's next.

The doors will be opened to those who are bold enough to knock.

When you love yourself, you'll feel sorry for those that hate you instead of hating them back.

Growth hurts because change isn't easy, that's why they call it growing pains

The wise learn from the mistakes of others, it's the fool that wants to make their own mistakes.

Any man can help make a child, but it takes a special man to help raise a child. He must be selfless. He must be responsible. He must be reliable. He must be a role model. Happy Father's Day to the men who are being real fathers.

Relationship is like a job but you can't ever retire. When you stop working at it, it stops working.

The best way to dream is with your eyes open and feet moving

You want a woman who, if needed, will be the CEO of the home. In essence, you want a woman who understands the difference between ambition and busyness. You also want a woman who understands that submission is strength, not weakness. Meaning, she understands the importance of your leadership but she is also strong enough not to allow you to run over her.

Two incomplete people can't complete one another. Complete yourself and then let someone else complement you.

Don't make excuses! Make changes!

I had to learn how to be faithful. When I was dating around and moving from woman to woman, I did not understand and know how to be faithful. Subsequently, once I entered into marriage, I had to learn how to be with one woman. For me, that was the biggest challenge of all.

You can't get it all, unless you give it your all.

I believe the media pretty much dictates the way relationships are handled, even in the way we handle ourselves. Abuse, cheating, threesomes, it's inspired by music and television. Irresponsible artists and writers with a hidden agenda, just working against the moral fabric that God intended for us to have.

Consistency is the key! If you can't be consistent, then you can't be anything.

The number one lesson I received from my father is to be responsible for yourself and your family. The responsibility you embrace is working, paying the bills, and coming home EACH night, just as a start.

Don't tell yourself you don't need love just because it hasn't found you yet.

I wrote my first book when I was 22 years old. I have a way with words and I love to write. I can write without getting writers block so I knew, it was a gift.

Instead of trying to see things my way, I try to see things her [wife's] way, and if it honestly makes sense then I will submit to her instead of being a tyrant and a dictator.